Stacey The Cougar Gets Personal

In this episode, I celebrated the Big 4-0 -- but the guys didn't know that it was my birthday! We started the day off with a physical challenge, which told me a lot about who has a competitive spirit. The guys all had mixed ways of staying fit, but one thing is for sure: Jimmy and David have some serious ab action going on! Colt made me laugh with his Richard Simmons attire -- does he really dress like that all the time or just for laughs?

I practiced martial arts with Johnny and Austin, and flipped both of them on the ground. When J.D. was bench-pressing me, I was scared to death he was going to drop me on my ass! I was really surprised Adam was OK with me sending his brother Grant home, and it was a relief that we cleared the air. 

The skate date was so much fun! I loved roller skating as a teenager, so I wanted to see if the guys would be able to show their fun side and let me relive my younger years. They were having a ton of fun skating through the obstacle course and trying to out-win each other on four wheels. Adam took strong initiative to grab me aside for one-on-one time and I loved his assertiveness. I liked his comment on "raw emotion." For me, exposing real feelings is the best chance at a solid relationship.

Travis was all smiles, as usual. I love his energy and attitude. He's always in an upbeat mood! I definitely took notice of Tom's reaction to Travis' stuffed animal gift. It showed me that maybe Tom can't handle a little competition -- and possibly an older woman.

My one-on-one time ended, once again, with a great kiss from Colt. The only problem is that I'm two for two in having to ASK for the kiss. Colt acts overly confident, but does he really have any game? I was a bit surprised how jealous the other guys got over the kiss I shared with Colt. Things are heating up not only with Colt and Ryan, but now Adam as well. 

I got the birthday surprise and gift of my life when my friends Kelly and Mici showed up! I was SO happy they were at the house. I needed my friends' opinions to help me figure out which guys were top choices. I was really bummed to have to tell them that no one asked about the most important people in my life: my kids. I know that they were less than impressed with that.

The guys were so sweet go shopping for me. I could tell they all put a lot of time and thought into what they chose, and that meant so much to me. I kept thinking how I will never forget my 40th birthday, how special this day was! Jon's journal really touched me because I love to write, and have had many goals and dreams that I have written down come true. Colt's gift didn't make sense -- why would I want an ascot? Joe's dog was adorable... I told him earlier I wanted a puppy, so he bought me the next best thing!

When I read Jimmy's card, I was shocked by his brazen and bold move. That same behavior landed Kevin in the driveway on the first night. I could really tell Nick and Kai have very sweet, sensitive sides to them, and the way they presented their gifts to me showed me they were proud of what they chose. 

I was really excited for my first one-on-one date. When Jon asked me if I was ever married and had children, I was ecstatic. Yes! Finally someone is getting to the deep, real-life questions. My date with Jon went so well. I was feeling a connection with him that night far more than anyone in the house. I was happy with our conversation and kiss at the end of the evening.

Overall, my 40th birthday has been amazing. I hope that this day is a foreshadowing of the year to come! Mici said my best years are ahead, and I hope that I spend those years with one of the men in this house.